Tuesday, February 27, 2007

Old friends


The Jerveys - my B.U. roommate Bill, his wife Pam, and daughter Allie - are in town visiting their son Chris, who lives in Santa Monica. Bill and I have always said that no matter how long it's been since we've last seen each other, or even written, it always seems like just yesterday - and today was no exception.

We met at the Getty Center, where we walked through some of the galleries, but mainly enjoyed the setting, and the view, having snacks and beer on a terrace overlooking West L.A. From there, we drove to Yamashiro restaurant, overlooking Hollywood, joining Chris (now in his thirties!) for two hours of appetizers, drinks, and great conversation.

Photo: Robin, Allie, Pam, and Bill

Sunday, February 25, 2007

Thoughts on Oscar Night

Best Picture: The Departed was certainly good, but not as good as Letters From Iwo Jima. But Clint’s won plenty of awards, and Scorcese was due, so it was no surprise. I didn’t see The Queen or Babel, and thought Little Miss Sunshine was vastly overrated.

Best Director: What goes for picture goes for director.

Best Actor: I can’t quibble with Forest Whitaker taking the award for The Last King of Scotland, which Robin and I saw just earlier today – but I had hoped Peter O’Toole would get it (talk about being due!) for Venus. But then again, I haven’t actually seen Venus; the old-man / sweet-young-thing subject matter is shopworn and unappealing, and a lot of voters may have felt the same. I thought Leonardo DiCaprio was good in The Departed, and excellent in Blood Diamond; he’s finally matured enough to inhabit his characters, and I wouldn’t be surprised to see him win an Oscar in the years to come.

Best Actress: I hadn’t seen any of these performances! Robin and I usually make a point of seeing most, if not all, of the top nominees, but this year we blew it. By all accounts, Helen Mirren deserved the Oscar for The Queen.

Best Supporting Actor: I’ve always enjoyed Alan Arkin, and he was certainly the highlight of Little Miss Sunshine, so I’m happy to see him get the award. But I would have flipped a coin and voted for either Mark Wahlberg (The Departed) or Djimon Hounsou (Blood Diamond). I haven't seen Little Children or Dreamgirls.

Best Supporting Actress: The only performance I saw in this category was that of Abigail Breslin, the kid in Little Miss Sunshine. She was fine, but it wouldn’t have occurred to me to nominate her for an Oscar.

Other awards: Why do they keep torturing the viewing audience with the 5 “Best Song” performances? Why does the Best Song category even rate inclusion in the live telecast? This award, along with Best Makeup, should be relegated to the banquet where they award Best New Camera Lens. It’s been years since there was a halfway memorable song in this category, and to give the songs more air time than any five other categories is ridiculous. The medley of three boring, overwrought songs from Dreamgirls was enough to send everyone I know to the kitchen for snacks, and as much as I liked An Inconvenient Truth, and Melissa Etheridge, her song didn’t make the least impression on me during the movie.

The ceremony in general: Ellen DeGeneris was okay, moving things along, doing her job – far better than the disastrous turns by David Letterman and Chris Rock – maybe even better suited to the task than last year’s John Stewart (who I prefer in every other way). But the master emcees of Oscar history remain Bob Hope (as much as I hated his politics), Johnny Carson, and Billy Crystal.

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

R.I.P. Our Red Elantra, 1997 - 2007

Robin's Elantra gave up the ghost in Pasadena tonight, almost ten years to the day from when we bought her new in Bloomington, Illinois. 'Twas a great car - she just ran and ran, getting 35-40 mpg. Then, last year, some transmission problems - and now it's the engine. I'm sure our neighbors will miss her colorful presence; some may even heave a sigh of relief.

Monday, February 19, 2007

Out and about: from the desert to the sea


On our way to the desert, we stopped for Sunday-morning breakfast in Claremont, which remains much as I remember it back in the 1950s - a classic college town with great old houses and magnificent shade trees on campus and off. The town itself is pedestrian-oriented, with streets of independent book stores, shops and cafes. We ate at the 42nd Street Bagel. I'm sure Claremont has its newer areas with chain restaurants and shopping malls, but it was still nice to see how well they've kept up the community core.

Back on the road, Robin took pics (adding to her "drive-by shootings" series) as we cruised to the Coachella Valley, through the forest of eerie, futuristic windmills near Palm Springs, on past the palm groves of Indio, and the barren Salton Sea (beachfront homes, cheap!). Turning west on 78, we drove through the Ocotillo Wells State Vehicular Recreation Area, which was a new experience for both of us. The place was swarming with bikers, roaring across the flats, into gullies, up ridges and dunes on both sides of the highway, kicking up a huge dustcloud visible for miles. Some of the kids looked to be no older than five or six. It was an amazing sight.


We arrived at Anza-Borrego Desert State Park in mid-afternoon, and after a walk around the visitor center, we decided to spend the night at the nearby Palm Canyon Resort, in Borrego Springs. It was a western-themed motel and campground, with a general store, restaurant, and saloon, medium-priced and relaxed, just what we were looking for.

Our second-floor room had a balcony, where we sat back enjoying pale ales and a beautiful sunset before walking to dinner. After dinner, we took a romantic stroll out to gaze at the spectacular night sky before going to bed.

It rained during the night, and when we stepped out on our balcony in the morning, a rainbow arched over the mountains just to the west. A nice way to start off the day! Driving into town, looking for an interesting place to eat breakfast, we hit the jackpot: a tall "Eat" sign drew us to the Red Ocotillo, a World War II era Quonset hut with retro decor, a surprisingly varied menu, and excellent food.

Now fed and watered, we checked out the exhibits at the park visitor center, then set out on a three-hour hike, up the Borrego Palm Canyon Nature Trail.

The trail, up along a canyon stream, was not particularly steep, but it was rocky (with a few ledges to climb) and not always clearly defined - certainly the biggest hike we'd taken in quite a while. The canyon is known for big horn sheep that often come down to the trail, but the only sheep we saw were speck-sized, high up on a ridge. Just short of the oasis at the end of the trail, we encountered sprinkles, and with dark clouds gathering, we turned back. It was an excellent trek, just the kind of thing we always say we should do more often.

We'd planned to drive over the mountains to the Wild Animal Park near Escondido, but after winding up S22 (a hairpin turner with spectacular views) on the desert side of the mountains, we ran into heavy rain that didn't let up until we reached the coast. It was slow going, but we weren't in any rush, and the rain didn't stop Robin from snapping pics from the car as we meandered along through hilly country of farms, vineyards, and occasional cattle. Reaching Oceanside, we parked at the wharf for seafood and drinks at Joe's Crab Shack, where we watched the sun set in the ocean. A nice close to the weekend.

On a side note: Oceanside may be a nice town, but the military presence is palpable, and ominous. You can see it in the haircuts, flags, bumper-stickers, and marine corps decals - and on our way out of town, trying to get on the I-5 going north, we, with our bumper stickers of a different kind, twice found ourselves stuck in lanes bound for Camp Pendleton Only.

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Jim Lynch, 1974 - 2007


Jim was dealt a rough hand. Born into a fringe religious cult, he was brought up in a communal home, abused and neglected, his parents eventually abandoning him to the foster care system. He had both physical and learning disabilities, and (not surprisingly) was considered a troublemaker from early on.

The communal home was two houses down from my mom, and she, being who she was, took it upon herself to befriend him, petulant as he was – inviting him in for dessert and conversation. He never forgot her kindness, and kept in touch over the years. When she died, he, twenty-five, gruff and hardscrabble, was among the first to come pay tribute.

We as a family, and my brother David in particular, have been keeping up with Jim in the years since. Severely injured while working on a fishing boat in the Pacific Northwest, he settled in Seattle, disabled, with ongoing health problems. But then came some good news: he'd met a nurse named Ellie, who became the love of his life.

Having craved for family all his life, he finally had one, and David – who talked to him just days ago – says that Jim seemed more upbeat, positive, and mature than ever before, with plans to enter college for the first time.

Sadly, Jim committed suicide on the night of February 12, 2007.

Tuesday, February 6, 2007

What is it, exactly, that I do?

An aquaintance recently asked me that question, and for the umpteenth time, I realized that I didn't have an easy answer.

In the old days, I was called a programmer - then a programmer / analyst - then programmer / systems analyst. Now, programmers are "engineers."

So now I'm a "Senior Software Engineer": development team lead and manager for the EAI (Enterprise Application Integration) portion of Sun Microsystem's Java Composite Application Platform Suite (Java CAPS). Got that?

Here's the kind of stuff I look at while at work...

Sunday, February 4, 2007

My son and his daughter


Could anyone be more proud than I am? No. Impossible.

Robin, James, and I took Darryl, Angela, and Kaitlin to brunch at the Cheesecake Factory in Sherman Oaks, belatedly celebrating Angela's birthday. We walked there from D & A's house, and had a fine meal in the outdoor patio - dampened only by the fact that little Kaitlin was not feeling at all well.

Saturday, February 3, 2007

Happy Birthday to...

My sister-in-law Kenlyn Kanouse...the fresh new face you may have seen on TV (The West Wing) and in theatres of late. That's Kate Winslet (center) standing next to her in shots from The Holiday. To be up-and-coming in a new career on one's Big Six-O is quite an achievement. Three cheers for Kenlyn!!!